'90 Day' 's Alexei Calls Loren's Family Baby Shower Crash a 'Power Move' as Her Mom Says 'That Was the Point'

Photo: Loren Brovarnik/Instagram

Monday’s episode saw Loren’s family tension peak as two surprise guests — her mother and sister — turned up despite having previously refused to attend.

The family feud didn’t take a backseat to the celebratory day. Instead, Loren and her husbandAlexei Brovarniktook Marlene and Rebecca aside to hash out their months-long estrangement.

Marlene claimed their decision to attend the shower was meant as an “olive branch,” but Alexei wasn’t buying it. He defended Loren and asked why the family members wouldn’t have sent through a “yes” RSVP in order to prevent Loren enduring prolonged depression and anxiety.

“She was stressing out for months like crazy, and I don’t know why you have to say you’re not coming,” Alexei said.

Marlene said she’d had a change of heart on the day of the party after she “thought long and hard, and I said, ‘If we go, hopefully that will be the olive branch that will help us all move forward.'”

Alexei called the last-minute arrival “all about how it looks” and “power moves.”

Marlene asked for “respect” and added, “That’s why we decided to come. To show you that no matter what, we are family and we’re here for you.”

Loren admitted the surprise was uncomfortable, detailing her “anxiety” and upset surrounding their “no” RSVP. At that, Marlene said, “That was the point.”

Alexei questioned why there needed to be a “point” at all, telling Marlene: “Those points make us go to a place where we are not welcome in each other’s lives.”

Marlene responded, “But why would you put me in a position where I have to make a point?”

Earlier this season, Loren and Alexei entered a period of estrangement from her family after a trip to Israel. During a trip on which the couple’s extended families met, Loren and Alexei spoke in detail about potentiallymoving from America to Israel. Her familyvocally opposed this plan, even in front of Alexei’s family.

Time will tell if their “olive branch” brushed away any of Loren and Alexei’s hurt.

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Loren & Alexei: After the 90 Daysairs Mondays at 10:30 p.m. ET on TLC.

source: people.com